Signs of a guy's indifference

2023 Author: Alfred Shackley | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 13:14

Every day we meet with many people - we have known someone for a long time, we get to know someone and start communicating for the first time. Among these people there is a person whom we sympathize with, but does he feel the same interest in return? This question is asked by many girls, trying to understand whether the guy likes them, whether some kind of relationship is possible, or maybe this is "the one" … Unfortunately, our feelings are not always mutual. And not many will dare to come up and ask a guy a direct question. Therefore, the question of which of the guys is not worth wasting your time will be relevant and by what signs to recognize that a guy does not like you at all. It's worth getting together and analyzing your communication.

It is worth taking a close look at the history of your correspondence on social networks and instant messengers. Who writes first in your dialogues? Even if the guy is very shy, then virtual communication in such situations smooths out all fears and doubts, but he still does not write? This is a bad sign. If a person is really interested in you, then he has a constant desire to be in touch with you, find out how you are doing, share his thoughts with you or send funny pictures. If in your dialogues you always write first, and the guy only turns to you on business, most likely, he is not interested in you.

2. How does he communicate on social networks

If a guy is not interested in a relationship, he can simply be a sociable person, treat you like a friend or, out of courtesy, reply to your messages. Pay attention to how he responds to messages. A sign that a guy does not have feelings for you can be: pauses in answers when he does not answer for more than 10 minutes; monosyllabic answers, for example, "ok", "clear", "understandable", etc.; when he can completely forget to answer and remember about it only the next day.

3. Lack of meetings in real life

No matter how interesting the online communication is, no serious relationship can begin without real live meetings. If a guy is not interested, he will not try to accidentally meet on the street or go to the same places that you visit, or seek meetings in a general company. Your meetings will be rare and really random.

4. Phone in hand

If a guy is constantly holding a phone in his hands at a personal meeting, texting with someone, leaving to make a call, this may indicate that he not only does not show interest in you, but also, perhaps, he already has someone. Otherwise, to whom can he pay so much attention.

5. Activity in social networks

Pay attention to how active he is on social networks. Does he put hearts under Instagram photos or Vkontakte likes? Does he write comments? If a guy is interested in you, then he will remind of himself in every possible way and try to stand out among other fans. If there is no interest, then the activity on social networks will be zero.

6. Hides communication

Perhaps the guy does not take the initiative to introduce you to his circle of communication, does not introduce you to his close friends, but communicates only in private? Or is he trying to hide the above communication from others? This means that he does not plan a close and long-term relationship and does not want to distract his friends once again with unnecessary acquaintances.

7. Doesn't offer an alternative under unforeseen circumstances

If you have planned some kind of joint pastime or business, then there is a possibility that circumstances may play against you. A trip to the cinema may be canceled due to an important business or family reasons. It would be quite logical to offer some kind of alternative or reschedule the meeting, but a guy disinterested in the relationship will not do this. For him, everything goes on as usual, and if it happened so, then it's okay, which means it's not destiny. From this we can conclude that he does not value meetings and communication and will not be upset if you do not see each other.

8. Makes you wait

You always have to wait for him: wait for answers to messages, wait for him to come to a meeting, wait for the first step. But this is not happening. He is simply not interested in communication and you should not hope that he will show interest.

9. Appears when you need something

Not a very pleasant situation when a guy who you like constantly asks for something, without offering anything in return. But in such a situation, it is very easy to be deceived and think that the guy is just looking for an excuse to meet. And it really can be so, the first 2-3 times. But if he asks for a favor, then disappears for a long time and appears again only when something else is needed - this is a bad sign.

10. Communication as with a friend

If a guy behaves with you in the same way as with his boyfriend friends, is not shy in expressions, he can allow discussion of other girls - he is not at all interested in you, as a girl. He can become your friend, invite you to watch football or go to a bar, but you shouldn't expect anything more.

Thank you for the attention!